Communicating with locals can seem like a daunting task. At times, it seems like no one can understand your language, and other times, it feels like the locals will not allow you to practice Italian. The best way to overcome this is to just put yourself out there and try to speak in Italian, no matter how difficult or embarrassing it may feel. Even if you just learn to correctly use a few simple words and phrases, this will help you to assimilate into Italian culture.

Here are a few suggestions and tips that will help you navigate stress free! 

Find an Italian friend, teach them your native language and share your culture while you learn more about your host culture – cultural integration is never one-directional!
Take part in the Connecting Cultures program.

Learn about current Italian pop-culture! Try to watch Italian tv shows, talent shows, and listen to current Italian music. This way not only will you improve your Italian language skills: you’ll also increase your understanding of the current trends and lifestyle. This will give you great conversation topics, Italians will be flattered that you actually took the time to learn about their country and you’ll be an instant best friend!

Try the local food. In Italian culture rejecting a dish or ingredient that has been offered could be taken as an offense. At least try the food, or, if you can not, politely explain why rather than just saying “no”.

Keep in mind that Italians, and especially Florentines, despite the stereotype, are very reserved and do not commonly talk to strangers. People might feel uncomfortable or misinterpret your intentions as in Italy it is preferable to be introduced to someone through a third party, like a common friend before starting a conversation. If a stranger approaches you on the street that person is not behaving in accordance with Italian customs and social norms. Do the Italian thing and politely ignore them!

Personal space can be smaller in Italy than other countries.

Be aware of cultural sensitivities. The mafia, Italian politics, World War II, or Italian stereotypes can be a sensitive spot for many Italians and a painful subject. If you do approach these subjects, try to be tactful and not too assertive, as people may feel uncomfortable.

Take advantage of public fountains! You will be able to refill your bottle at water fountains located in the main piazzas, or at the “fontanelli.” Some of them even offer carbonated water! On the other hand, since in italian culture it is not very common to eat or drink outside of meal hours, you will not find water fountains inside buildings.

In Italy it’s forbidden to smoke inside public spaces but it is permitted to smoke everywhere outside. This can be very inconvenient but please keep in mind that an Italian will not perceive smoking next to you in the street as something that might bother you. If you smoke, don’t throw cigarette butts on the street as you may be fined for littering!

People in Italy can be fascinated by other countries, but presenting your way as the best or only way will kill the conversation and the cultural exchange. Italians are generally very critical of their home country but will proudly defend it if feeling judged.

Try unfamiliar things. Life begins outside of our comfort zone! Leaping out of your linguistic and cultural comfort zone can be hugely rewarding!